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Discover articles and resources for neurodivergent, queer, non-monogamous, and/or pleasure-positive folks. The Oh Posies Blog is your space to learn, get inspired, and live more unapologetically.

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Kinks are common: understanding the psychology behind them and normalizing taboos

Kinks are common: understanding the psychology ...

Let’s talk about something people whisper about but almost everyone thinks about: kinks. They’re often treated like some secret club of taboo desires but the reality is most adults have...

Kinks are common: understanding the psychology ...

Let’s talk about something people whisper about but almost everyone thinks about: kinks. They’re often treated like some secret club of taboo desires but the reality is most adults have...

A woman in a cozy living room sits on a green velvet couch looking different choices of toys - for pleasure centered lifestyle and self-discovery

Self‑pleasure is self‑care: turn on with ethica...

Ah, wellness. So often sold in shades of beige with a side of shame and a $90 jade egg. But for many of us, especially if you're neurodivergent, queer, non-monogamous or...

Self‑pleasure is self‑care: turn on with ethica...

Ah, wellness. So often sold in shades of beige with a side of shame and a $90 jade egg. But for many of us, especially if you're neurodivergent, queer, non-monogamous or...

Man confidently wearing a crop top, smiling and posing sitting on the grass with posters behind him.

The crop top comeback: how men are redefining m...

In 2025, men's crop tops are having a loud, proud renaissance. And guess what? You don't have to be queer, ripped, or runway-ready to wear one and we'll tell you...

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The crop top comeback: how men are redefining m...

In 2025, men's crop tops are having a loud, proud renaissance. And guess what? You don't have to be queer, ripped, or runway-ready to wear one and we'll tell you...

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A shelf with books, with one in the front with 4 people and hearts on the cover. Bext to the book, a glass bottle with corks and a lemon trinket.

Redefining relationship norms for personal grow...

So you’ve been fed the same story your whole life: grow up, fall in love, get married, be monogamous forever or else you’re doing it wrong. But what if your...

Redefining relationship norms for personal grow...

So you’ve been fed the same story your whole life: grow up, fall in love, get married, be monogamous forever or else you’re doing it wrong. But what if your...

A smiling ENM couple sits at a table, drinking tea and looking at each other. Books, a big window and vibrant plants create a cozy, warm ambiance.

Is ethical non-monogamy right for you? Question...

With growing visibility and shifting cultural norms, more people are exploring ethical non-monogamy (ENM) as a valid, fulfilling alternative to traditional monogamy. But before jumping in, it’s crucial to pause...

Is ethical non-monogamy right for you? Question...

With growing visibility and shifting cultural norms, more people are exploring ethical non-monogamy (ENM) as a valid, fulfilling alternative to traditional monogamy. But before jumping in, it’s crucial to pause...

A diverse group sitting together at a rooftop patio are engaged in a conversation. The environment is modern, with plants and natural light that conveys comfort, curiosity, and emotional connection.

So you're monogamous-ish and curious?

So you're monogamous-ish and curious? Welcome to the wild, wonderful world of ethical non-monogamy! It's not just about adding more people to your love life; it's about expanding your understanding...

So you're monogamous-ish and curious?

So you're monogamous-ish and curious? Welcome to the wild, wonderful world of ethical non-monogamy! It's not just about adding more people to your love life; it's about expanding your understanding...