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Discover articles and resources for neurodivergent, queer, non-monogamous, and/or pleasure-positive folks. The Oh Posies Blog is your space to learn, get inspired, and live more unapologetically.

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Sunny room with a mid-century modern style. A wooden cabinet displays a reverse pineapple print for pleasure-positive subtle symbol. Books, plants and a leather chair add warmth.

What is sex positive art and how to add it to y...

Sex positivity is the idea that consensual sexuality, desire and pleasure are natural parts of life, not something shameful to hide. Art has always played a role in challenging taboos,...

What is sex positive art and how to add it to y...

Sex positivity is the idea that consensual sexuality, desire and pleasure are natural parts of life, not something shameful to hide. Art has always played a role in challenging taboos,...

Framed vintage-style poster titled "Compersion" with an art nouveau illustration of a woman. Below, a wooden shelf holds books and a potted plant.

How to decorate your home with ENM art and sign...

Home decor says a lot about who we are. Politics show up in bookshelves. Identity shows up in art. But ethical non-monogamy is still largely invisible in mainstream design. If...

How to decorate your home with ENM art and sign...

Home decor says a lot about who we are. Politics show up in bookshelves. Identity shows up in art. But ethical non-monogamy is still largely invisible in mainstream design. If...

A cozy room with soft lighting and string lights, five queer polyamorous people are gathered. Two are cuddling on a sofa, while three sits contently on the floor.

A gentle guide to Valentine’s Day for polyamoro...

Valentine’s Day is loaded. Even if you’ve been practicing ethical non-monogamy for years, this holiday has a way of sneaking under your skin. That’s not because you’re doing ENM wrong,...

A gentle guide to Valentine’s Day for polyamoro...

Valentine’s Day is loaded. Even if you’ve been practicing ethical non-monogamy for years, this holiday has a way of sneaking under your skin. That’s not because you’re doing ENM wrong,...

A polyamorous person holds a black tote bag with a yellow square featuring red text reading, "Yes, my partners know about each other." The scene conveys joy and openness.

If monogamy gets to be normal, so does polyamor...

Most people grow up swimming in monogamy the way fish swim in water. It is everywhere, assumed, celebrated and rarely questioned. If you date more than one person with consent...

If monogamy gets to be normal, so does polyamor...

Most people grow up swimming in monogamy the way fish swim in water. It is everywhere, assumed, celebrated and rarely questioned. If you date more than one person with consent...

Queer throuple relaxing together on a couch in a warm modern living room, with plants and a couch.

Throuple meaning: what it is, myths and how rea...

If you have ever seen three people holding hands and thought "aww cute" or "wait, how does that work?", welcome to the world of throuples. This guide breaks down what...

Throuple meaning: what it is, myths and how rea...

If you have ever seen three people holding hands and thought "aww cute" or "wait, how does that work?", welcome to the world of throuples. This guide breaks down what...

What does neurospicy even mean? A friendly guide for the delightfully different brain

What does neurospicy even mean? A friendly guid...

If you have ever said "my brain is doing parkour again" while simply trying to answer an email, congrats. You might be one of the many adults who identify as...

What does neurospicy even mean? A friendly guid...

If you have ever said "my brain is doing parkour again" while simply trying to answer an email, congrats. You might be one of the many adults who identify as...