Real talk for the beautifully non-normative

Discover articles and resources for neurodivergent, queer, non-monogamous, and/or pleasure-positive folks. The Oh Posies Blog is your space to learn, get inspired, and live more unapologetically.

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A woman in a bright T-shirt stands outdoors with a city backdrop. The shirt features an Art Nouveau-style illustration labeled "Comperision," for ENM and polyamory visibility in style.

If monogamy gets to be normal, so does polyamor...

Most people grow up swimming in monogamy the way fish swim in water. It is everywhere, assumed, celebrated and rarely questioned. If you date more than one person with consent...

If monogamy gets to be normal, so does polyamor...

Most people grow up swimming in monogamy the way fish swim in water. It is everywhere, assumed, celebrated and rarely questioned. If you date more than one person with consent...

Queer throuple relaxing together on a couch in a warm modern living room, with plants and a couch.

Throuple meaning: what it is, myths and how rea...

If you have ever seen three people holding hands and thought "aww cute" or "wait, how does that work?", welcome to the world of throuples. This guide breaks down what...

Throuple meaning: what it is, myths and how rea...

If you have ever seen three people holding hands and thought "aww cute" or "wait, how does that work?", welcome to the world of throuples. This guide breaks down what...

A cozy room with a wooden cabinet holding books, a plant, and a framed print saying "Normalize Not Being Normal" for neurospicy affirmation. Soft light and a potted palm add warmth.

What does neurospicy even mean? A friendly guid...

If you have ever said "my brain is doing parkour again" while simply trying to answer an email, congrats. You might be one of the many adults who identify as...

What does neurospicy even mean? A friendly guid...

If you have ever said "my brain is doing parkour again" while simply trying to answer an email, congrats. You might be one of the many adults who identify as...

Two queer women in front of a Christmas tree with a cool look, magazines and wine glasses for queer gifts research during the holidays.

Best gift ideas for queer partners and friends ...

We love a good Christmas or birthday gift moment, but if you’re dating a queer person, you already know: rainbow mugs and socks won’t always cut it. Your partners and...

Best gift ideas for queer partners and friends ...

We love a good Christmas or birthday gift moment, but if you’re dating a queer person, you already know: rainbow mugs and socks won’t always cut it. Your partners and...

Kinks are common: understanding the psychology behind them and normalizing taboos

Kinks are common: understanding the psychology ...

Let’s talk about something people whisper about but almost everyone thinks about: kinks. They’re often treated like some secret club of taboo desires but the reality is most adults have...

Kinks are common: understanding the psychology ...

Let’s talk about something people whisper about but almost everyone thinks about: kinks. They’re often treated like some secret club of taboo desires but the reality is most adults have...

A woman in a cozy living room sits on a green velvet couch looking different choices of toys - for pleasure centered lifestyle and self-discovery

Self‑pleasure is self‑care: turn on with ethica...

Ah, wellness. So often sold in shades of beige with a side of shame and a $90 jade egg. But for many of us, especially if you're neurodivergent, queer, non-monogamous or...

Self‑pleasure is self‑care: turn on with ethica...

Ah, wellness. So often sold in shades of beige with a side of shame and a $90 jade egg. But for many of us, especially if you're neurodivergent, queer, non-monogamous or...