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What to Give Your Metamour: Gift Ideas for the Partner of Your Partner

What to Give Your Metamour: Gift Ideas for the ...

Not sure what to gift your metamour? From polyamory mugs to wall art, here are ENM-affirming gift ideas that celebrate compersion, connection and non-monogamous love.

What to Give Your Metamour: Gift Ideas for the ...

Not sure what to gift your metamour? From polyamory mugs to wall art, here are ENM-affirming gift ideas that celebrate compersion, connection and non-monogamous love.

A couple kisses on an escalator against a green tiled wall. They wear casual jackets, conveying love and spontaneity in an urban setting.

The Relationship Escalator? We're taking the st...

A guide by Oh Posies Collective to defining non-escalator relationships for ENM, polyamorous, solo poly and relationship-anarchist folks,and the people who date them.

The Relationship Escalator? We're taking the st...

A guide by Oh Posies Collective to defining non-escalator relationships for ENM, polyamorous, solo poly and relationship-anarchist folks,and the people who date them.

Sunny room with a mid-century modern style. A wooden cabinet displays a reverse pineapple print for pleasure-positive subtle symbol. Books, plants and a leather chair add warmth.

What is sex positive art and how to add it to y...

Sex positivity is the idea that consensual sexuality, desire and pleasure are natural parts of life, not something shameful to hide. Art has always played a role in challenging taboos,...

What is sex positive art and how to add it to y...

Sex positivity is the idea that consensual sexuality, desire and pleasure are natural parts of life, not something shameful to hide. Art has always played a role in challenging taboos,...

Framed vintage-style poster titled "Compersion" with an art nouveau illustration of a woman. Below, a wooden shelf holds books and a potted plant.

How to decorate your home with ENM art and sign...

Home decor says a lot about who we are. Politics show up in bookshelves. Identity shows up in art. But ethical non-monogamy is still largely invisible in mainstream design. If...

How to decorate your home with ENM art and sign...

Home decor says a lot about who we are. Politics show up in bookshelves. Identity shows up in art. But ethical non-monogamy is still largely invisible in mainstream design. If...

A cozy room with soft lighting and string lights, five queer polyamorous people are gathered. Two are cuddling on a sofa, while three sits contently on the floor.

A gentle guide to Valentine’s Day for polyamoro...

Valentine’s Day is loaded. Even if you’ve been practicing ethical non-monogamy for years, this holiday has a way of sneaking under your skin. That’s not because you’re doing ENM wrong,...

A gentle guide to Valentine’s Day for polyamoro...

Valentine’s Day is loaded. Even if you’ve been practicing ethical non-monogamy for years, this holiday has a way of sneaking under your skin. That’s not because you’re doing ENM wrong,...

A polyamorous person holds a black tote bag with a yellow square featuring red text reading, "Yes, my partners know about each other." The scene conveys joy and openness.

If monogamy gets to be normal, so does polyamor...

Most people grow up swimming in monogamy the way fish swim in water. It is everywhere, assumed, celebrated and rarely questioned. If you date more than one person with consent...

If monogamy gets to be normal, so does polyamor...

Most people grow up swimming in monogamy the way fish swim in water. It is everywhere, assumed, celebrated and rarely questioned. If you date more than one person with consent...