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The ENM outfit guide: from first meetup to polycule dinner (and beyond)

The ENM outfit guide: from first meetup to poly...

Getting dressed for an ENM event isn't just about looking good, it's about saying something before you even open your mouth. A field guide to dressing intentionally, from your first...

The ENM outfit guide: from first meetup to poly...

Getting dressed for an ENM event isn't just about looking good, it's about saying something before you even open your mouth. A field guide to dressing intentionally, from your first...

Three friends enjoying drinks at a bar, laughing and chatting together.

Looking for a threesome? How to do it ethically...

Looking for a threesome but not sure how to go about it without being weird? Here's how to find a third ethically, where to look and how to send the...

Looking for a threesome? How to do it ethically...

Looking for a threesome but not sure how to go about it without being weird? Here's how to find a third ethically, where to look and how to send the...

What to Give Your Metamour: Gift Ideas for the Partner of Your Partner

What to Give Your Metamour: Gift Ideas for the ...

Not sure what to gift your metamour? From polyamory mugs to wall art, here are ENM-affirming gift ideas that celebrate compersion, connection and non-monogamous love.

What to Give Your Metamour: Gift Ideas for the ...

Not sure what to gift your metamour? From polyamory mugs to wall art, here are ENM-affirming gift ideas that celebrate compersion, connection and non-monogamous love.

A couple kisses on an escalator against a green tiled wall. They wear casual jackets, conveying love and spontaneity in an urban setting.

The Relationship Escalator? We're taking the st...

A guide by Oh Posies Collective to defining non-escalator relationships for ENM, polyamorous, solo poly and relationship-anarchist folks,and the people who date them.

The Relationship Escalator? We're taking the st...

A guide by Oh Posies Collective to defining non-escalator relationships for ENM, polyamorous, solo poly and relationship-anarchist folks,and the people who date them.

Sunny room with a mid-century modern style. A wooden cabinet displays a reverse pineapple print for pleasure-positive subtle symbol. Books, plants and a leather chair add warmth.

What is sex positive art and how to add it to y...

Sex positivity is the idea that consensual sexuality, desire and pleasure are natural parts of life, not something shameful to hide. Art has always played a role in challenging taboos,...

What is sex positive art and how to add it to y...

Sex positivity is the idea that consensual sexuality, desire and pleasure are natural parts of life, not something shameful to hide. Art has always played a role in challenging taboos,...

Framed vintage-style poster titled "Compersion" with an art nouveau illustration of a woman. Below, a wooden shelf holds books and a potted plant.

How to decorate your home with ENM art and sign...

Home decor says a lot about who we are. Politics show up in bookshelves. Identity shows up in art. But ethical non-monogamy is still largely invisible in mainstream design. If...

How to decorate your home with ENM art and sign...

Home decor says a lot about who we are. Politics show up in bookshelves. Identity shows up in art. But ethical non-monogamy is still largely invisible in mainstream design. If...