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So you've read our free guide "Is ENM right for you?". Twenty questions in and you're still here, that probably means something.

This "So you want to open things up" guide is where the real work happens to start your path into non-monogamy: 68 questions across 22 pages and 6 sections, covering the stuff most people skip until it blows up in their face: jealousy, logistics, what you actually mean by "open" and what happens when the answer isn't the same for everyone at the table.

Each question comes with room to write, because thinking it doesn't count until you've said it out loud (or at least written it down where you can get back to it). You also get a glossary so you won't have to Google "metamour" mid-sentence.

This isn't a relationship fix, it's a conversation starter with better questions than the ones you'd come up with at overthinking in bed at 1am. Read it alone, work through it with a partner or hand it to whoever brought this up in the first place.